Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Vanilla or Twist?

Last week's blog post with the lovely velcro cuffs Cream gifted me last week, initiated some interesting conversation:

wifeinlove asked, "Can I ask were you both quite vanilla before hand and how did you go about introducing all this into your relationship?"

My automatic response was, "No". We are at the very beginning of this exciting kinky adventure.

But then I thought back to our first days of carnal indulgence, both with each other and at all...

*the screen blurs as we fly back through memories to the year 2000; a blazing fire, concrete floor, dow board mattress, and bare naked studs both wood and male*

Teenagers in love, barely past our virginity and overloaded on sensual discovery. I ride him like the stallion he is, bucking hard and fast. He feasts at my breast and heeds my demands to bite harder. Harder. HARDER! A wild buck rips my tenderized flesh from his teeth and horror spreads across his face. I take one look and demand, Don't you DARE stop!

So yeah, I don't think I ever was vanilla. I prefer a twist.

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

A new beginning with restraints

Cream and I have a history with restraints.
Picture naive lil' sheep playing with a wolf skin. We cut ourselves on the teeth.
But that was years ago and we are moving forward once again!

After my simple yet deliberate submission to his demand last week Friday, he came home Saturday bearing gifts.

A surprise for Peaches, from Cream.

At first I just saw the cuffs and really all I could articulate was a breathless, "Oh" thinking to myself, "He is ready to take us to the next step!"

Then the eye hooks registered along with two large long wooden dowels and I was puzzled.

"What?"

He gave me one of his strong silent stares and didn't even crack a smile. "Spreader bars."

Oh. My.

He was still not smiling and I wasn't sure if I was more anxious or excited. But man, oh man, was he doing a good job with the firm Dom attitude. I got the chills and kinda liked it.

We are at the very beginning of our journey. Our vanilla bed is full of laughing and smiling but we are attempting to bring the intensity up a notch with a stern/solemn attitude integrated into our D/s play.

And so.... Tuesday night we broke them in! (Just the cuffs)

I was sitting on the bed testing the size of the new cuffs and really just using it as an excuse to tease/seduce him.

I had both wrists cuffed and was attempting to put them behind my back and link them together. I couldn't quite get them to hook and he couldn't quite resist joining me on the bed and hooking them for me. 

The sensation was thrilling, being off balance with the slight and constant pull on my biceps as my arms stretched behind me.

A particularly large turn-on for me is being "man-handled" BUT since Cream and I equal in weight, this rarely happens because I naturally/subconsciously resist. (If he can catch me unawares, it works out and boy, oh boy is the adrenaline rush an extra bonus kick in the panties!) 

With my arms cuffed behind my back, Cream maneuvered me into any position he wanted. Flipping me over. Propping up my hips. Cuffing my wrists to my ankles.

Yeah. So. That was fun and I want to do it again, and so does Cream. In fact, he stated afterwards that he had more planned but he finished too quickly.

{Peaches}

Monday, May 16, 2011

Deciding to Submit

I was asking for it, in my own way.
My typical shock and awe tendencies coming into play.
Astounding him with my lack of motivation and subsequent 2 weeks absence from the gym.
That he had failed to notice.

His answer was simple. "You will go tomorrow."

My answer was immediate, "But I have tomorrow off."

He replied simply,  "I don't care when you go but... You. Will. Go."

And I did. At 7am. A very nice start to my day. And a very nice start to our D/s relationship.

{Peaches}

Sunday, May 1, 2011

Peaches vs. Cream • D/s Variations

Peaches and Cream are exploring the possibilities of a D/s relationship. Upon massive amounts of reading and conversation, they have discovered some interesting aspects of their individual D/s desires.

{Peaches}
• Looking to be controlled as a Pet.
• Receptive to the idea of schedules set by her Dom, micromanagement.
• Mental submission, service.
• Above aspects lean towards a 24/7 lifestyle.

• Enjoys the idea of micromanaging her own Pet.
• Control Freak.


{Cream}
• Looking to be punished.
• Physical submission, pain.
• Adverse to mental submission, especially humiliation.

• Enjoys mentally manipulating. This shows promise for interaction as Peaches' Dom.